WHY ARE MARRIAGES FAILING?

A friend asked me “why is my marriage not working? Why can’t I keep permanent and enjoyable relationships?

I don't claim to have all the answers but could it be that ;

 

-          you are selfish and care only about yourself?

-          you are too proud , ‘closed’ and unreachable?

-          you lack tact in relating with people?

-          you have diarrhea of the mouth?

-          you find it difficult to give yourself to your spouse?

-          you love your stuffs more than your family?

-          you are too busy and pressed for time to relate?

-          you are playing God over your spouse by trying to change them?

-          you are too perfect for ordinary folks to satisfy?

-           you are not kind and compassionate in dealing with people.

-          you are an unfriendly person who loves strife?

-          you are allowing small conflicts to grow and fester?

-          you are not affirming your love for your partner.

-          you easily misunderstand your friends?

-          you are intolerant and impatient with people?

-          you find it difficult to love people?

-          you do not respect your spouse?

-          you believe wrongly that all men are brutes and women are demons?

-          you are a sexist?

-          you are cynical and suspicious of your folks?

-          you have disappointed the trust of your family and friends?

-          you are not appreciative of your relationships?

-          you have neglected your marital and financial obligations?

-          you are not working at and growing your relationship?

-          you are not forgiving and forgetting offences committed against you?

-          you lack people skills?

-          you are being distracted by a lot of external  influences?

-          you have given up on your relationship?

-          you are not seeking God’s help in your relationship?

-          you are allowing satan to break your family and friendships?